Happiness

Lazy August Link Love

August 14, 2026

Photo by Huan Minh on Unsplash

We’re midway through August and I’m getting ready to go visit friends and family on the West Coast! I’ll be taking a break from Catching Happiness for the next couple of weeks, and there will be no Happy LittleThoughts newsletter this month. Here are some interesting links for your edification and entertainment until I return. 

The first sentence of “The 26 Keys to Thriving” stopped me in my tracks: “People underestimate their freedom to act, even when no one is stopping them.” The author continues, “The need for permission is nothing but an illusion, and it’s one we enforce ourselves…. Seeking permission is optional, while the path to flourishing is open, always.”  The last key, “Life is fast. Love is slow,” is another one that resonated. 

Your brain isn’t wired for happiness. Yale scientist Laurie Santos explains why, and what you can do about it.  

If this doesn’t sound like a perfect occupation for me, I don’t know what does. 

This is an older Substack post that I finally got around to reading (sorry, Janelle!), and I love the idea of a year of beauty. She writes, “…we underestimate the effect of beauty, and how it lifts us up when our feet are caught in the metal grates of life.” Maybe I’ll start my own year of beauty in September, my birth month. 

Have you heard of “bed rotting”? Despite it’s unattractive name, I can see the attraction. 

“We no longer read or reflect. We just consume. It doesn’t matter what—videos, notes, podcast excerpts—it’s all just content, there for us to gorge ourselves on,” writes Jeff Goins in “AI Is Making Everyone Stupid.” While the headline references AI, Goins is really talking about how we are entertaining (distracting) ourselves to death. I’ve been wrestling with a social media scrolling habit this year and this piece reinforces my desire to put down the phone/close the internet.    

Replace a habit of constant consumption with a (mostly) analog “dopamine menu.” 

I am so sad that Jackie the Big Bear eagle has died. I loved watching her and her mate, Shadow, on nest cam raising their young. This little window into nature has brought both happiness and sorrow, as well as piquing my curiosity about eagles and their behavior. 

Dr. Mark Williamson is co-founder of Action for Happiness and author of Make Life Happier: 23 Practical Ways to Feel Better, Find Meaning,and Make a Difference.This is his talk from the 2026 World Happiness Summit and it’s worth a watch:


Until next time, may your drinks be cold and your simple pleasures be many!



August

August Reminders from Morgan Harper Nichols

August 07, 2026

Photo by Ako Tampo on Unsplash

I love Morgan Harper Nichol’s work, and I came across this this week and thought I’d share. August is usually a tough month for me, so these reminders are helpful. 


Let August

be August

by allowing

yourself to trust:

you do not have to be

so hard on yourself

if you cannot make sense

of all that is changing.

In the coming days,

you will find mystery,

and you will also

find room to breathe

and you might just find

even in these unknowns:

you are more prepared

than you think.


You are free to take the time you need to feel what you need to feel… including the good feelings.


Don’t let them rush you. You are traveling at the pace you were meant to.


You are still free to pursue peace right here in the in-betweens.


Whatever happens this month, be gentle with yourself.


Even here, there is still space for us to rise above the fear... propelled into motion by love.


There is more to come.

More love.

More joy.

More grace.

More peace.


Let this be the August

you look back on and say:

“somehow, through it all,

I learned to fall in love

with the journey.”

— Morgan Harper Nichols