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—Charles Dickens, A Christmas Carol
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—Charles Dickens, A Christmas Carol
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During December, getting the mail is exciting. Will there be
a card and/or letter from a far-off friend? Did someone send me a Christmas
gift? Did something I ordered to give to someone else arrive? During the
stretch of weeks between Thanksgiving and Christmas, I get more than bills and
junk mail in my mailbox—and I love it!
Snail mail as simple pleasure.
I know I’m not the only one who loves to get mail, and there’s
no reason why we can’t enjoy this simple pleasure all year round.
Back in Olden Times, before texting and email became as
convenient and popular as they are, if you wanted to stay in touch with a
faraway friend or family member, you had to write letters—pre-cell phone, calling
was likely expensive. I used to bring stationery or note cards with me to my
son’s baseball practices, or I’d jot a few lines while we watched TV. Even on
occasion, I’d sit on our front porch specifically to pen a letter to someone.
Even though I love the convenience of texting and email—the ability to send
photos or share a funny thought in the moment—I also miss getting actual
letters in my mailbox from my friends and family.
I don’t write many letters anymore, but I’m thinking about
bringing letter writing back into my life as a Happy Little Thing. I like the idea
of slowing down enough to gather my thoughts and write to someone. I have a few
older relatives who don’t use email or text, and I know they’d love to get a
note in the mail. I just need to make this a simple pleasure rather than a chore—maybe
set myself up with pretty stationery, a cozy drink, and so on. Make it a pleasant
ritual.
I’m also a fan of receiving packages in the mail, even if
they’re just vitamins or pet food I ordered online! There’s just something exciting
about opening up a box, especially if you’re not quite sure what’s inside. Though
I’ve never tried this, I know there are plenty of subscription services out
there, from coffee, to beauty items, to art supplies, to luxury boxes that
combine any number of charming personal and home items—at many different price
points. There are even letter subscriptions.
Subscribing to a letter or box service could be a way to
have something fun to look forward to, especially if you don’t have anyone to
exchange letters with, or if you’d prefer just receiving snail mail to actually
producing it. A few I that look tempting (no affiliation):
During the coming year, I’d like to write more letters (and hopefully
receive more letters), and I might even invest in some type of subscription
service—I absolutely would like to have something small and happy to look
forward to in my mailbox on a regular basis.
Do you have any favorite subscription services or other
snail mail sources?
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| Welcome to Hogwarts |
Every now and then, you have to leave the real world behind
and have a little fun. That’s what I did on Tuesday with my friend Mary. Ever
since The Wizarding World of Harry Potter opened at Universal Studios Florida,
we’ve wanted to go check it out. But we’re Muggles with jobs and
responsibilities and busy schedules, so this was easier desired than done. Finally,
Mary took the initiative and chose a week she could make work, and after some back-and-forth,
we found a day we were both free. If there’s one life lesson that keeps
slapping me in the face, it’s “If you want to do something, don’t wait—there may
come a time when you won’t be able to do it and you’ll live with regret.”
So off to Harry Potter World we went.
The Wizarding World of Harry Potter is actually split into
two parts—one section, Diagon Alley, in Universal Studios Florida and one section,
Hogsmeade, in Islands of Adventure. Pause here to admire the marketing genius
of Universal Resorts: if you want to see the entirety of Harry Potter World,
you have to buy a Park-to-Park ticket. Fortunately, they also offer ticket deals
for Florida residents, and while the entrance fee was not cheap, it was doable.
I also think if you’re a Harry Potter fan, it’s worth it to spring for the
entire experience.
Hidden behind the London waterfront, is Diagon Alley. Before you even enter the area, you can see
the the Knight Bus (which in the books, picks up stranded witches and wizards),
and 12 Grimmauld Place, the ancestral home of Sirius Black’s family, and the headquarters
of the Order of the Phoenix. I missed this, but apparently house elf Kreacher
looks out of an upstairs window every few minutes.
Once you enter Diagon Alley, you’ll find in adorable detail many of the locations made famous in the books and movies, including Gringotts Bank (topped by a fire-breathing dragon, see below), Ollivander’s wand shop (“Makers of Fine Wands Since 382 BC”), and the Leaky Cauldron (a restaurant). In one shop, you can trade U.S. currency for Gringotts bank notes, which you can use to buy things in the Wizarding World as well as a few select places in Universal Orlando.
We strolled through Knockturn Alley, the “seedy underbelly” of the wizarding world—dark and spooky, anchored by the shop Borgin and Burkes—just the place to go if you want to get out of the hot Florida sun while you search for objects of magical properties.
Before leaving Diagon Alley, we rode Harry Potter and the Escape from Gringotts (fun) and, yes, we drank a butterbeer.
To get from Diagon Alley to Hogsmeade, we boarded the Hogwarts Express at King’s Cross Station. From Platform 9 ¾, of course. The short train ride left us on the outskirts of Hogsmeade, which, amazingly in sunny Florida, retained snow-capped roofs.
Hogsmeade nestles up against Hogwarts Castle, where we walked through the passageways of the School of Witchcraft and Wizardry before joining Harry and his friends for Harry Potter and the Forbidden Journey, a “scenic dark ride” where, among other things, you follow Harry through a Quidditch game and escape from the Whomping Willow.
In Hogsmeade, we also braved Hagrid’s Magical Creatures Motorbike Adventure, which was a true roller coaster, and left us screaming and laughing…and staggering a little since it was a bit more exciting than we were expecting!
To recover, we went to sweet shop Honeydukes, where I bought
a chocolate frog and some Bertie Bott’s Every Flavor Beans.
My friend and I had a fantastic time exploring Harry’s
world, and there were so many things to see and do that I would be happy to go
back. I loved seeing kids and even some adults dressed in Hogwarts’ robes—it was
so fun to feel immersed in a magical world for just a day.
I have really fond memories of reading the Harry Potter books
to our son and later, going to see the movies as a family. For me, forgive the
pun, the series has been magical. As the series progressed and our son grew up,
eventually I was reading the books just for myself! In fact, I preordered the
last in the series, Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows, and read it over
the course of a day or two when it was released because I didn’t want anyone to
tell me how it ended. The first and last time I’ve ever done that.
Hope you’ve enjoyed a peek into the magical world of Harry
Potter—and that the next time an opportunity for some silly fun comes your way, you take it!
When was the last time you had a fun and silly everyday
adventure?
In the U.S., yesterday was Thanksgiving, a day not known for
its moderation. So if you’ve indulged in a little too much “festivity,” (and even
if you haven’t) here are some happy, peaceful links to check out while you’re
(hopefully) enjoying a day off from the normal routine.
Check out “25 Ways to Take Care of Yourself During theHolidays” for ways to stay healthy and sane this year. Most of these fit in
really well with my word of the year, simpler.
Just when I think that people are the worst, I read a story
like this.
“5 Anxiety-busting Activities to Try This Weekend.” I’ve
been trying to make joy a priority recently.
The sweet joy on these faces is pure magic.
“18 Easy Things to Do Today to Make Yourself Happier.” Number
9 is my favorite.
The holiday season can be difficult for highly sensitive people—it’s
so full of stimulation. This article has good information on how to care for
yourself mentally, physically, emotionally, and socially if you’re highly
sensitive—and how to help if someone you love is.
And here’s your laugh for the day. Welcome to the
Squirrelympics!
Happy weekend!
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“Both abundance and lack exist simultaneously in our lives, as parallel realities. It is always our conscious choice which secret garden we shall tend. The invisible underbrush holding us back is our own thoughts. When we choose not to focus on what is missing from our lives but on the abundance that’s present—love, health, family, friends, work, and personal pursuits that bring us pleasure—the wasteland falls away and we experience more joy in the real lives we live each day.”
—Sarah Ban Breathnach, Simple Abundance
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Don’t you get fed up with feeling helpless, that the world’s
problems are too big to solve? This reminds me of productivity expert David
Allen’s statement that you can’t “do” a project. You can only do steps
of a project.
So as individuals, we if we can’t solve [insert
problem here], maybe we can take a small step towards a happier world, for
ourselves and for others. Being kind, generous, and thoughtful is good for your
own mental health as well as benefitting others. Every action counts. If we do
nothing, nothing will ever change.
Here are five simple ways to make the world a happier place:
1. Help a teacher. If you have kids in school, start with their
teachers. If you have friends who are teachers, ask them what they need. If you
don’t know any teachers, check out Donorschoose.org. Teachers have borne a
larger-than-their share of stress and turmoil over the past few years, and they
could use our support.
2. Donate to a local food bank. Food banks across the U.S. are struggling with both greater need and the higher prices of food. Money is
always appreciated, but another way I like to do this is to stock up on my
grocery store BOGO deals—donating one or both of the items.
3. Support small businesses, locally and online. Buying holiday
gifts from small businesses (or makers on Etsy) is one way to do this. Watch for ways to participate in Small Business Saturday (Nov. 26), a day set aside to celebrate and support small
businesses and all they do for their communities.
4. Support the authors, artists, and musician you love. When I
think about how many hours of comfort and joy my favorites have given me, I
realize that I could do more to say thank you. Monetary support through buying
their offerings is only one way to support them. You’re already supporting them
by reading their words, listening to their music, and gazing at their art (checking
books or music out of the library counts)! But if you (I) want to do more, you
can always share your favorites publicly on social media, or just in
conversation with a friend. Leave
positive reviews or ratings. Send your favorite a message or fan letter. Follow
them on social media and subscribe to their newsletters if they have them. This
helps them to “build a platform,” which can lead to more sales.
5. Don’t forget yourself. That’s right, you heard me. Treat
yourself kindly. Put having fun on your to-do list. If adding one more thing to
the list makes your head explode, look at what’s already there and figure out
how it might be made more enjoyable. If you’ve already scheduled some
self-care, circle it in red and congratulate yourself for your good sense. (Click here for some simple ways to treat yo-self. For more great, mostly free
self-care ideas, see “99 Free (Or Affordable) Self-Care Ideas for Your Wellness Routine.”)
Most of all, let your default be kindness. Take a beat when
you’re tempted to snap at someone. No doubt this is an extra stressful time of
year and I’m willing to bet that we’re all fighting hard battles of one form or
another. So smile, be patient, listen.
(Want more ways to be kind? See
We do not have to give in to the awfulness of the world. We can spread the ripples of kindness, even if we fear those efforts won’t make that much difference. I always ask myself, “What kind of person do I want to be?” Do I want to know in my heart that I did nothing, or made things worse, when I could have done some small thing to ease someone else’s burdens or give them an emotional lift? I remember how I feel when someone does something nice for me, and while I’m not always aware enough (or capable enough at the time) to do the kindness, it is my goal to be that person. Let’s keep trying to spread kindness and happiness in whatever ways we have available to us.
Please share in the comments below your ideas for small,
simple kindnesses—I’d love to hear them!