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Ready or not, it’s a new year
I wanted to do a lot of reflection on 2022 and some looking
ahead to 2023 during the week between Christmas and New Year’s Day, but my
husband was off work so we wound up doing some much-needed shopping (see: home
appliance death, above) and hanging out together. I wouldn’t trade this, even
though it briefly left me feeling behind. Here it is January 6th and
I haven’t done any of the things I like to do before the start of a new year. I
haven’t chosen a word of the year. I haven’t set any goals for the year, or
even for the month. I haven’t made a vision board, or even added birthdays to
my new planner.
And that’s OK. I’m not behind. And you’re not either, if you
find yourself in the same position I’m in.
Even though the beginning of a new year is a natural
starting point, it’s still just an arbitrary date. You can start (or stop) an activity,
goal, or dream at any point, on any day.
I would rather be “behind” than rush the process.
I’m gong to continue working thoughtfully through my
end-of-the year rituals until that process feels finished. (I’ve also been
loving seeing and listening to the goals of some of my favorite bloggers and
podcasters. Inspiration for my own.)
New year, new attitude
I spent a good portion of 2022 feeling overwhelmed and,
often, depressed. I didn’t have the mental bandwidth to do much more than just
what I needed to do to fulfill my commitments and responsibilities. But now I
feel a small upwelling of energy and desire. There are things I want to
accomplish, places I want to go, people I want to see. While I’m being
cautious, it feels great to want to set goals and make changes.
The first week of January has started softly. I’m taking
down everything pinned on my bulletin board and I’ve emptied out my Happiness Jar—and
started refilling it. I’m listening to music while sitting in my office rocking
chair and dreaming of what might be in 2023. I’m feeling happy. I hope you are,
too.
How is your new year beginning?
A few fun resources for New Year dreaming and
goal-setting:
Gretchen Rubin’s “23 for 23” printable
Best of Both Worlds podcast: 2023 Goals
Every January, Make Two Lists (a more practical alternative
to resolutions)
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—Charles Dickens, A Christmas Carol
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During December, getting the mail is exciting. Will there be
a card and/or letter from a far-off friend? Did someone send me a Christmas
gift? Did something I ordered to give to someone else arrive? During the
stretch of weeks between Thanksgiving and Christmas, I get more than bills and
junk mail in my mailbox—and I love it!
Snail mail as simple pleasure.
I know I’m not the only one who loves to get mail, and there’s
no reason why we can’t enjoy this simple pleasure all year round.
Letters
Back in Olden Times, before texting and email became as
convenient and popular as they are, if you wanted to stay in touch with a
faraway friend or family member, you had to write letters—pre-cell phone, calling
was likely expensive. I used to bring stationery or note cards with me to my
son’s baseball practices, or I’d jot a few lines while we watched TV. Even on
occasion, I’d sit on our front porch specifically to pen a letter to someone.
Even though I love the convenience of texting and email—the ability to send
photos or share a funny thought in the moment—I also miss getting actual
letters in my mailbox from my friends and family.
I don’t write many letters anymore, but I’m thinking about
bringing letter writing back into my life as a Happy Little Thing. I like the idea
of slowing down enough to gather my thoughts and write to someone. I have a few
older relatives who don’t use email or text, and I know they’d love to get a
note in the mail. I just need to make this a simple pleasure rather than a chore—maybe
set myself up with pretty stationery, a cozy drink, and so on. Make it a pleasant
ritual.
Packages
I’m also a fan of receiving packages in the mail, even if
they’re just vitamins or pet food I ordered online! There’s just something exciting
about opening up a box, especially if you’re not quite sure what’s inside. Though
I’ve never tried this, I know there are plenty of subscription services out
there, from coffee, to beauty items, to art supplies, to luxury boxes that
combine any number of charming personal and home items—at many different price
points. There are even letter subscriptions.
Subscribing to a letter or box service could be a way to
have something fun to look forward to, especially if you don’t have anyone to
exchange letters with, or if you’d prefer just receiving snail mail to actually
producing it. A few I that look tempting (no affiliation):
- Paris Letters or Typewriter Letters subscriptions, individual letters or packages from Janice MacLeod Studio
- Art and journaling supplies from Archer & Olive
- Stories told through letters from The Flower Letters
- Monthly “letters of celebration, inspiration, and hope” from The Confetti Bar
During the coming year, I’d like to write more letters (and hopefully
receive more letters), and I might even invest in some type of subscription
service—I absolutely would like to have something small and happy to look
forward to in my mailbox on a regular basis.
Do you have any favorite subscription services or other
snail mail sources?
Welcome to Hogwarts |
Every now and then, you have to leave the real world behind
and have a little fun. That’s what I did on Tuesday with my friend Mary. Ever
since The Wizarding World of Harry Potter opened at Universal Studios Florida,
we’ve wanted to go check it out. But we’re Muggles with jobs and
responsibilities and busy schedules, so this was easier desired than done. Finally,
Mary took the initiative and chose a week she could make work, and after some back-and-forth,
we found a day we were both free. If there’s one life lesson that keeps
slapping me in the face, it’s “If you want to do something, don’t wait—there may
come a time when you won’t be able to do it and you’ll live with regret.”
So off to Harry Potter World we went.
The Wizarding World of Harry Potter is actually split into
two parts—one section, Diagon Alley, in Universal Studios Florida and one section,
Hogsmeade, in Islands of Adventure. Pause here to admire the marketing genius
of Universal Resorts: if you want to see the entirety of Harry Potter World,
you have to buy a Park-to-Park ticket. Fortunately, they also offer ticket deals
for Florida residents, and while the entrance fee was not cheap, it was doable.
I also think if you’re a Harry Potter fan, it’s worth it to spring for the
entire experience.
Diagon Alley
Hidden behind the London waterfront, is Diagon Alley. Before you even enter the area, you can see
the the Knight Bus (which in the books, picks up stranded witches and wizards),
and 12 Grimmauld Place, the ancestral home of Sirius Black’s family, and the headquarters
of the Order of the Phoenix. I missed this, but apparently house elf Kreacher
looks out of an upstairs window every few minutes.
Once you enter Diagon Alley, you’ll find in adorable detail many of the locations made famous in the books and movies, including Gringotts Bank (topped by a fire-breathing dragon, see below), Ollivander’s wand shop (“Makers of Fine Wands Since 382 BC”), and the Leaky Cauldron (a restaurant). In one shop, you can trade U.S. currency for Gringotts bank notes, which you can use to buy things in the Wizarding World as well as a few select places in Universal Orlando.
We strolled through Knockturn Alley, the “seedy underbelly” of the wizarding world—dark and spooky, anchored by the shop Borgin and Burkes—just the place to go if you want to get out of the hot Florida sun while you search for objects of magical properties.
Before leaving Diagon Alley, we rode Harry Potter and the Escape from Gringotts (fun) and, yes, we drank a butterbeer.
All aboard the Hogwarts Express
To get from Diagon Alley to Hogsmeade, we boarded the Hogwarts Express at King’s Cross Station. From Platform 9 ¾, of course. The short train ride left us on the outskirts of Hogsmeade, which, amazingly in sunny Florida, retained snow-capped roofs.
Hogsmeade nestles up against Hogwarts Castle, where we walked through the passageways of the School of Witchcraft and Wizardry before joining Harry and his friends for Harry Potter and the Forbidden Journey, a “scenic dark ride” where, among other things, you follow Harry through a Quidditch game and escape from the Whomping Willow.
In Hogsmeade, we also braved Hagrid’s Magical Creatures Motorbike Adventure, which was a true roller coaster, and left us screaming and laughing…and staggering a little since it was a bit more exciting than we were expecting!
To recover, we went to sweet shop Honeydukes, where I bought
a chocolate frog and some Bertie Bott’s Every Flavor Beans.
My friend and I had a fantastic time exploring Harry’s
world, and there were so many things to see and do that I would be happy to go
back. I loved seeing kids and even some adults dressed in Hogwarts’ robes—it was
so fun to feel immersed in a magical world for just a day.
Harry Potter magic
I have really fond memories of reading the Harry Potter books
to our son and later, going to see the movies as a family. For me, forgive the
pun, the series has been magical. As the series progressed and our son grew up,
eventually I was reading the books just for myself! In fact, I preordered the
last in the series, Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows, and read it over
the course of a day or two when it was released because I didn’t want anyone to
tell me how it ended. The first and last time I’ve ever done that.
Hope you’ve enjoyed a peek into the magical world of Harry
Potter—and that the next time an opportunity for some silly fun comes your way, you take it!
When was the last time you had a fun and silly everyday
adventure?