 |
| Photo by Elena Kloppenburg on Unsplash |
Adulting is hard.
Work is never-ending, bills need to be paid every
month, the news constantly bombards us with distressing images, and what is
that new pain in your knee?
While large-scale adventures such as going on a trip or achieving
a major goal can boost happiness, these big things don’t come around as often
as our daily, weekly, or monthly practices and experiences. That’s why in 2026
I’m going to lean hard on ordinary joys.
This applies to both things I do for fun and things I need
to do to contribute to my household and keep our lives running. If I have to do
it anyway, why not make it more fun?
- Find the perfect cup for my coffee or tea.
- When I indulge in the treat of my choice, choose something really good rather than mindlessly eating straight from the container.
- Write with the perfect pen on the perfect piece of paper.
- Scent my home with an essential oil diffuser, candle, or room spray.
- Make reading or watching a movie or TV show an event—curl up under a cozy throw, pop some popcorn, put away my phone and concentrate on one thing at a time.
In other words, putting a bit more thought and effort into
the ordinary raises a simple pleasure to another level. As Melissa of Julia’s Bookbag Substack wrote, “if you can find a petite joy of some kind…LEAN INTO
IT.”
Ordinary joys
Here are five ordinary joys I’m leaning into this year:
The happiness jar. This was a fun way to focus on and
record happy little things as well as what I’m grateful for, so I’m
resurrecting the practice.
Organizing my home. We’ve lived here for a year, so
now I have a better idea of how this house functions. I’m reevaluating our
belongings, which includes getting rid of things I don’t need, replacing things
that need updating, and organizing it all so that it functions well. What’s
joyful about this? I finally have both the time and money to focus on this area
of life, one that will benefit us all. It feels good when everything functions
smoothly, we have what we need, and we’re not constantly reacting to crises.
Reading. I read quickly, and I read a lot. In 2026, I
want to make this even more of a joyful practice so I’m going to keep a more
extensive reading journal. I’ve been tracking certain aspects of my reading,
but I want to expand that. I’m currently deciding between a commercially made reading
journal or one I make myself. (Any recommendations?)
Improving my cooking skills and adding new recipes to my
repertoire. I’m not in love with cooking like some people are, but I have
to do it to keep myself and my family fed. We’re getting bored with what I’ve
been making, and I want to take another step towards a healthier eating
pattern. I plan to sift through my recipes, try some new dishes, and generally
improve my experience in the kitchen. This may also include some new tools to
make this easier and more enjoyable, and it definitely includes listening to
music, audiobooks, or podcasts while I cook!
Prettifying my planner. Even though I don’t go as far
as some planner aficionados, I add washi tape and stickers and occasionally
other ephemera into my planner. It makes something I use every day a little
more fun. This year I’m allowing myself some small purchases to round out my
existing collection of planner/art journaling stuff.
Elevating the everyday
A new year is a good time to evaluate what’s working in your
life and what isn’t. How can you change or adjust your usual routines, habits,
and everyday practices to make them more enjoyable and satisfying? We can’t
control everything about our lives, but we can make efforts to invite in more
joy, satisfaction, wonder, and delight.
How do you make the everyday more joyful? Please share in the comments below.
For more ideas on elevating the everyday, check out Ingrid
Fetell Lee’s Joyful or any of Alexandra Stoddard’s books.
.jpg)
