Books

My Summer Reading List—or You Won’t See Me Again Until November

June 12, 2026

From the TBR shelf

Reading is my favorite hobby, especially now that Tank is no longer with me. I never have a shortage of titles to choose from—my physical TBR shelf is overflowing, and I have more than 300 books on my library For Later shelf. Summer is a great time for me to escape into other worlds, because in Florida, summer is the worst time to be outside. 

For just about as long as this blog has been in existence, I’ve been compiling lists of books to read over the summer. This year is no different. Despite the fact that “summer” here stretches from May to November, for the purposes of this list, at the time of this writing, these are the books I plan to reach for during the next three+ months. I won’t read all of them, but I do hope to get to many of them. Not in a pressure-filled way, but in a “I love to read, and it’s too hot/humid/stormy to be outside, so why not pick up a book?” way.

How I choose books for the summer reading list

I have a very complicated spreadsheet and I read a lot of reviews and…

Haha, nope.

My process is very simple. It starts with:

What do I feel like reading? Summer is a time to follow my whims. Sometimes, my whims include a long book (Stephen King’s The Stand, and last summer’s Kristin Lavransdattar), and I used to include a classic, a comfort reread, and a writer’s biography on my summer reading list

I also consider my word (or words) of the year. Are there any books that fit in with my theme? In 2026, my words are mend and tend. What books sound like they enhance my mend and tend theme? While no books on this list specifically fit with that theme, the idea of spending more time reading does. 

I read any “summer reading lists” that come to my attention. I always review Modern Mrs. Darcy’s Minimalist Summer Reading Guide, and sometimes I’ll come across one or two other lists of book recs for summer to draw from. 

The problem with Modern Mrs. Darcy’s list is the books are often new and they are still on order at the library or the waiting list is long enough that I won’t get my turn until summer is over. (Despite my ever-growing TBR shelf, I don’t buy every book I want to read.) There were several books on MMD’s list by authors I’ve read and enjoyed before, including:                                                                                  

The One Day You Were My Husband, Rosie Walsh 

Whistler, Ann Patchett 

Dolly All the Time, Anabel Monaghan (Nora Goes Off Script is a favorite from a few years ago)

I’ll put these three on hold and see if they come in before summer’s end.

In the meantime, I’ll start with the books already waiting for me at the library:

Goldenrod, Maggie Smith. “A stunning poetry collection that celebrates the beauty and messiness of life.” 

The House of Hidden Letters, Izzy Broom. Described as “sweeping, escapist, and full of heart,” it sounds perfect for a summer read. 

Kate & Frida, Kim Fay—“A novel of Friendship, Food, and Books” by the author of Love & Saffron, which I loved.

Memorial Days, Geraldine Brooks. I’m already listening to the audiobook, read by the author.

What about that TBR shelf?

I’m so glad you asked. I’ve been plugging slowly away at my shelves of purchased-but-not-yet-read books. (I’d make more progress if I’d stop buying books, but that’s apparently not going to happen.) Here are a few I’d like to read this summer:

As part of my reintroduction to and re-immersion in art, I bought several drawing books. I want to read (and practice my way through) You Can Draw in 30 Days, by Mark Kistler. as well as 50 Ways to Draw Your Beautiful, Ordinary Life, by Irene Smit and Astrid van der Hulst, and Keys to Drawing, by Bert Dodson. 

The Story She Left Behind, Patti Callahan Henry. A friend and I went to see Henry speak at a local bookstore and we left with autographed copies of this book and a pact to read it together over the summer. 

Other possibilities:

Traveling While Married, Mary-Lou Weisman

Daisy Miller and/or Washington Square, Henry James.

The Generous Exchange, Maria Sirois. 

The Unexpected Education of Emily Dean, Mira Robertson. 

Creative Visualization for Writers, Nina Amir. 

That’s a pretty ambitious list. I read quickly, but I’m going to try to slow down and savor whichever book I choose to immerse myself in. What a privilege to have this many choices, and free time available to play. 

What are you going to read this summer?

 


Simple pleasures

Summoning Summer Vibes—The 2026 Summer Fun List

June 05, 2026

Photo by Mets on Unsplash

The kitchen remodel is done (“done” as in, the contractors are finished with their job, now I get to clean everything and put all our kitchen stuff away)—just in time for summer! And you know what that means: Months of searing heat and stifling humidity…summer fun.

Longtime readers know Florida summer isn’t my favorite. Since summer isn’t easy for me to enjoy, it’s probably more important for me to plan summer fun than any other season. I’ve made a summer fun list every year for probably a decade—maybe more! (Here are lists from 2016 and 2022.)

What do you want the season to feel like?

When planning my summer, I thought about author Gretchen Rubin’s question, “What do you want the season to feel like?”

Mostly, I want it to feel relaxed. Summer for me, probably for most of us in the Northern Hemisphere, is not a time to make grand plans and press forward aggressively. It’s a time to slow down, savor longer days and more sunshine, retreat from the heat with cool drinks and seasonal treats (for me, that’s summer fruit and homemade ice cream).

As Rubin writes, “…it’s up to us to make the most out of summer. A little intention goes a long way: a theme, a list of things you want to read and do and try, a sense of what you want the season to feel like.”

My summer fun list isn’t very exciting and doesn’t contain much that is new and different—it’s more a return to the tried-and-true summer pleasures I typically enjoy. But it feels right for the summer of 2026.

My summer 2026 fun list

  1. Host my husband’s office mates for an open house. He changed jobs about a year and half ago, and he wants to invite his lovely new coworkers over to see our home and all the remodeling work we’ve done on it.
  2. Visit family and friends on the West Coast. It’s been far too long since I made the cross-continent trip. (Sounds quite adventurous when described that way!)
  3. See a couple of movies at the theater—my husband and I both want to see Disclosure Day and The Odyssey
  4. Do at least one jigsaw puzzle (I’m starting this one as soon as I get my kitchen put back together). 
  5. Continue making inroads in my unread shelf (separate summer reading list to come).
  6. Enjoy our community pool.
  7. Make key lime pie ice cream. This keeps appearing on my summer fun lists—maybe this is the year!
  8. Get together with friends as often as possible.
  9. Stay at the beach for a weekend.
  10. Update parts of my wardrobe—I need some new “goin’ out” clothes and new shoes.
  11. Continue and expand sketching and art journaling practices.
  12. See if my right arm tendinitis will allow me to play pickleball. It looks so fun, but I had to give up tennis many years ago due to tendinitis problems and I still have issues with my entire right arm—wrist, forearm, and shoulder.
  13. Experiment with some new recipes in a relaxed and curious manner. I don’t love to cook, but I also don’t hate it when it’s not a daily responsibility, if you know what I mean.

Mainly I want to slow down and enjoy my newfound freedom. Remember what fun is and how to have it. To take my time over my responsibilities instead of hurrying through them to get to the next thing. With our renovations behind me, I *should* be able to settle into our new home more fully, and enjoy the freedom of less space to maintain. I want to sit in our reading room with a book and a cold drink and decompress. 

Whether you love summer or hate it, a little advance planning can make it a season to savor and remember. I hope the summer of 2026 is your best one yet!

What are you planning this summer?

If you need inspiration for your summer plans, several of my favorite online creators have shared their summer fun plans and planning tips, including:

Laura Vanderkam: “The 2026 Summer Fun List” 

Gretchen Rubin: “How to Design Your Summer” 

Sarah Hart-Unger: “Plan Your Summer With Me!” 

 


Happiness

Happy Right Now

May 22, 2026

Photo by Abyan Athif on Unsplash

I found myself feeling cranky and a blue this week due to the purgatory and disarray that is home remodeling. I had hoped we would be done by the end of this week, but we’ve been delayed by…a kitchen sink. The one we bought two months ago turned out to be inappropriate for our job, and the replacement sink arrived broken. Sigh. A new sink is due to be delivered tomorrow and work can recommence once it’s here. Provided it arrives unscathed.

Since looking at my half-finished kitchen and all its contents scattered through the house has been depressing me, I decided it was time to stop thinking about what bugs me and focus on some of the things that bring me daily pleasure. Sort of a counting my blessings exercise to remind me how really great my life is. I tend to take for granted all the little things (and some big ones) that work for good.

So in random order, here are 10 large and small things making me happy right now:

Hearing birds, especially red wing blackbirds, on my morning walk.

Being able to pay my bills.

A giant list of books I want to read, and most I can read for free by checking them out from my library. Sometimes a long TBR list stresses me out, but most of the time I love having many compelling books to choose from.

I am currently healthy and not injured (knock wood).

My new home. Not a day goes by that I’m not grateful for our new place. I love it so much!

I heard the frogs singing after a much-needed rainstorm Thursday night.

That much-needed rainstorm—we’ve been in a serious drought.

Good friends who encourage me, inspire me to be a better person, and who share in my adventures.

Loving family relationships—watching our niece and nephew moving into their roles as parents, talking with my stepmom on the phone for more than hour this week.

Our kitchen remodel will be done soon and it will be wonderful!

I know many people are suffering right now, and I understand how privileged I am. Even in an objectively good life, little irritations and worries can add up, and make me forget just how good it is. It was time for me to spend a few minutes refocusing on what I love rather than what’s bugging me. In addition to feeling better, I am better able to help those around me when I’m not mired in negativity. Helping others makes me feel happier, and so it goes, in a virtuous cycle. Remembering what makes me happy right now? It’s a start.

What are some things making you happy right now?


Everyday adventures

In Progress

May 15, 2026


A quick update today: kitchen remodeling is underway! The good news: the kitchen will not take (knock wood) as long as the bathroom to complete. The bad news: it’s really hard to feed yourself without a kitchen sink, dishwasher, and counters. Food prep is tough, and washing dishes in the laundry tub is, shall we say, problematic. We do have use of our stove and oven, which helps. We can cook the food, but cleaning up after is a pain.

Lots of waiting around for contractors to arrive, noise, disruption, mess, and chaos—the animals are handling it better than the humans, probably because their meals aren’t affected.

This project has been hanging over my head for months—I’m excited to see it in progress, and it will be a huge relief to have it finished. We’ve been thrilled with our bathroom renovation, and I think we’re going to be just as happy with our kitchen. We’re not moving plumbing or changing the configuration, but the cabinetry will go almost to the ceiling and there will be corner cabinets instead of dead space. I’m hoping this will solve some of our storage problems—and we’ll be able to unpack the last couple of boxes in the garage!

A tiny sneak peek:


This has been my adventure for the week—what was yours? 

Moms

Celebrating Mother’s Day When Your Mom Is Gone

May 08, 2026

Photo by Shamblen Studios on Unsplash

The advertisements and marketing emails are everywhere: Mother’s Day is coming. And for those of us who no longer have our mothers with us, this can be a painful time of year. Rather than hide from it, I’ve been thinking about what we can do to enjoy the day. Here are four ways we can celebrate Mother’s Day if our moms are no longer with us. 

Celebrate the women in your life who fill a mothering role for you

I’m lucky to have a few cherished older women in my life I still look up to. My mom’s twin sister, my stepmom, and even my high school creative writing teacher who I’ve remained in touch with for 40+ years. These women continue to inspire me and love me unconditionally, and even though I don’t need advice from them very often anymore, I know I could ask them for it and hear something of merit.

Celebrate any new moms you know

In our family, we have two new moms: our niece, Jennifer, and our nephew’s wife, Kelly. Both are navigating the first six months of their new roles, and both are the kind of women I’m proud to call family. Their strength, humor, and love will serve them well as moms. I’m excited to watch a new generation of parents in our family!

Remember with gratitude all you loved about your mom

Until recently, I found it too painful to think much about my mom and our life together. That is slowly changing, and I’m starting to be able to remember fun times we shared, and look back with gratitude for her presence. I so wish she could see our new home and talk over my plans for changes and updates—we both would have enjoyed that immensely!

If you’re a mom, celebrate yourself!

I am a mom, and it’s been one of the most challenging and mind-blowing roles of my life. I made many mistakes (still do) but I’ve loved being a mom and am grateful for the experience. I’m also grateful for the chances for personal growth being a mom provided—I know I’m a better, stronger person because of it. 

Miss you, Mom

I miss my mom, and I know I was lucky to have a caring mother and a good relationship with her—not everyone has that blessing. Whatever your relationship with your mom, good or bad, whether she is present or gone, I hope you have a happy Mother’s Day!

If you feel comfortable, share one happy memory of your mom in the comments!

P.S. If you still have your mom, give her some extra love this year on Mother’s Day!