April Link Love—Systems, Habits and Beliefs That Can Improve Happiness

April 24, 2026


Photo by Shelley Pauls on Unsplash


A very happy Friday to you! In this edition of Link Love, I share a collection of articles about systems, habits, and beliefs that can help us feel happier—plus a couple of unrelated minor delights. Enjoy!

I love the two-minute system Neil Pasrischa uses when anxiety spikes. Click here to learn more about “Rose, Rose, Thorn, Bud.” 

I’m practicing several of these slow living habits. 

Why does Finland consistently rank as the happiest country in the world? Here are six habits and beliefs that contribute. (I especially found it interesting that “happiness” for Finns is more about contentment and life satisfaction than feelings of “overwhelming happiness.”) 

In the face of setbacks and hard times, how do you keep calm and carry on? Here are some great answers to that question. 

Spending too much time online makes me unhappy, so I’ve been trying to cut down on mindlessly scrolling on my phone. “The Real Secret to Reducing Screen Time” has some helpful suggestions; click through to see the details, but “The real secret to reducing screen time is to shift your focus from controlling your phone to forgetting all about it.” 

Reading is a source of joy for me, but I can get caught up in trying to read more books at the cost of a deeper, more rewarding reading experience. Reading faster doesn’t mean reading better. In “What we lose when we gamify reading,” Marissa Levien discusses how we can take goal setting around reading too far, to our own detriment. 

In February, Larry the cat celebrated 15 years as the British government’s official rodent-catcher and unofficial first feline. His duties include “greeting guests to the house, inspecting security defenses and testing antique furniture for napping quality.” He’s been known to say hello to world leaders and photobomb visitors as they enter the front door of No. 10 Downing Street. 

This is a beautiful version of Elton John’s “Your Song.” 


Have a great weekend!


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  1. Kathy great post as always. I find it so interesting regarding the happiness in Finland being so much higher. Sometimes it seems like our social media, etc. causes many to be discontent. You and I both know we like to be positive in our posts but also life is not perfect in either one of our worlds and most likely that is the truth in others. Always gratitude seems to be key in finding true joy no matter who or where it takes place and even how good or bad the circumstances may be. Take care and have a wonderful day. Hugs!

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    1. Debbie--Social media certainly plays a role in our moods and attitudes. Life isn't only sunshine and rainbows for anyone, and while it's important to have a generally positive mindset, it's also important to be honest when we're struggling. I think it can bring people together when we share our imperfections. Hope you have a great week, and thanks for stopping by!

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